Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses. -- Proverbs 27:6
I've been reminded of this verse lately in a good way. For me, the most crucial element that separates casual acquaintance or even regular friendship from a truly close and deep relationship is not so much common personalities, interests, or beliefs (important as they are)... but the ability to keep it real.
Those who realize a relationship isn't just sugarcoated flattery and handholding, but also consists of being completely transparent and holding no punches back... those who understand growing isn't about pushing my "warm fuzzy encouragement" button, but sharing the truth in love... they are whom I'm privileged to call my brother/sister/gege/jiejie/hyung/nuna.
To those of you out there in that role and those who will be -- in all my stages of life up until now -- thank you. =)
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